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Psalm 55:13-15 For had it been an adversary who taunted me, then I could have borne it; or had it been an enemy who vaunted himself against me, then I could have hidden from him. But it was you, a man after my own heart, my companion, my own familiar friend. We took sweet counsel together and walked with the throng in the house of God.
After a few weeks, Michelle didn’t eat lunch with me anymore. She wasn’t around for dinner, and I couldn’t find her to walk to choir rehearsal. Each day, I wondered what had happened, convinced that I had done something wrong.
I soon received my answer—Michelle had joined a sorority. Her chapter said she couldn’t spend time with anyone who was not also pledging. I was stunned and heartbroken, and I mourned our short friendship. Sometimes, people make choices that don’t or can’t include us. This is a painful reality—and it’s not our fault. If you’re in a one-sided relationship, pray for the strength to forgive the one who has wronged you. God will restore your faith in others, and who knows—perhaps your heart will open to a let in another friend.
MOVING FORWARD: Have you been on the hurting end of a one-sided relationship? How did you feel—and heal?
Today the Church remembers Mary and Martha of Bethany.